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Cake day: June 25th, 2024

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  • Before being a parent i tried to do as much net positiv things for my energy level as possible.

    • Go for a walk in nature as long as needed to feel decompressed
    • Do something creative (with which i struggeled a lot because of overly high expectations for myself)
    • Some caring for the body (e.g. a bath, nails, skincare, whatever)

    But now as a parent, i just rest as much as possible and try not to feel bad for doing so.








  • toxoplasma0gondii@feddit.orgtoaww@lemmy.worldJust look at those thumbs!
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    5 months ago

    There are studies indicating that 1. The Urbanisation of previous bird habitat has a much bigger impact on certain populations and 2. Most of the birds killed are common and adapted to urban life. Which leads to the conclusion that cats are not the one and only big problem for sining bird population, which is mostly spoken of in this context.










  • Go ahead and aks her if she has ever been harrased or sexually coerced in her life. At what age and what happend. And then ask her if she has friends who have. Or how often she didn’t think it was socially acceptable to say “no” or “fuck off”.

    This is not something just in our heads. We don’t just freak out about nothing. Especially in a world were young white men are increasingly frustrated about the way the world “treats” them.

    I have had enough guys try to follow me home or just obnoxiously trying to “be nice” while ignoring all the " I don’t want to talk right nows" and “i don’t need you to escort me home, reallys”, thank you very much.

    Its not about the danger of beeing raped or killed. Its about the fact that its uncomfortable enough as is even if nothing objectively bad happens.