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Suck_on_my_Presence@lemmy.worldto Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•Do you notice your friends having wildly different priorities as you get older?18·8 days agoMore of an answer to the title question, but absolutely.
I left home at 18 to join the military, but my high school friends were still close knit. We’ve grown apart, but there are so many wild differences in the group as a whole now that we’re full fleged adults and have been for a little bit. We’re all so different now, it’s pretty wild.
One had a kid early in her 20s and struggled to get through schooling while raising a kid and supporting her household. She found solid work and had to drop her degree to focus on that. One got into a big company and has fast tracked promotions until moving to another company for big money. Once settled into that, had kids and now is living the classic American upper middle class lifestyle. One happened upon an internship that completely changed her degree trajectory and now she’s incredibly happy in a position no one would have expected for her. I don’t know if kids are on the menu, but she’s certainly enjoying traveling for now.
And then I’m sort of starting all over after ending a long term relationship and moving and getting a new group of friends locally and and and.
So absolutely everyone has hugely different priorities. Maybe not as self centered as your mate’s, but life has really worked all of us into different paths.
Suck_on_my_Presence@lemmy.worldto Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•What is a time you embraced mediocrity yet still won the day all the same?8·9 days agoCleaning. With ADHD I cannot manage enough executive function to do things well, so good enough is good enough.
For example, I hate laundry, it’s the worst chore. But I’ve created shortcuts that are all stupid and mediocre, but it makes the chore doable. I don’t fold my shirts, they just go in a bin, I don’t fold shorts or tank tops, I don’t do much for pants. I don’t care about wrinkles and it’s at least clean and put away and that’s good enough
Suck_on_my_Presence@lemmy.worldto Patient Gamers@sh.itjust.works•Recommendations for the current sale3·11 days agoOP, if you have a VR setup, Pistol Whip is absolutely worth it if you like games like beat saber. Even without trying to shoot on beat, it’s a blast. There are a bunch of songs that are one offs, and there are two campaigns (or there were last time I played, there might be more). The devs are awesome, the guns are fun, and it’s a hell of a workout.
Suck_on_my_Presence@lemmy.worldto Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•How much do some mega-expensive things cost?2·14 days agoMy first car was $12k USD off the lot.
I just bought a new car after nearly two decades of my first and it was $42k. It’s not even anywhere near upper end, it’s one of the most basic daily drivers there are.
Suck_on_my_Presence@lemmy.worldto Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•What's the most ridiculous reason why someone sent you death threats?7·17 days agoI’m gonna guess Game of Thrones
Suck_on_my_Presence@lemmy.worldto FoodPorn@lemmy.world•Sapporo Ichiban Ramen, Original flavor, with Wakame, Pan-seared Chicken Thigh, and Green OnionEnglish7·17 days agoI do similar with instant mie goreng noodles, only I try to add a fried egg and some garlic chili paste as well.
Suck_on_my_Presence@lemmy.worldOPto Relationship Advice@lemmy.world•I (30s F) am head over heels for my best friend (late 20s F), but she's afraid of changing our relationship.English4·23 days agoI appreciate your input, thanks.
That’s what I’ve been telling her too, that a relationship can only work if you follow the “slowest” parts. It’s hard to both be cautious of that and yet yearn still, haha.
Suck_on_my_Presence@lemmy.worldto Church of Thighentology@ani.social•Thigh hug (Spindle)4·25 days agoBless Spindle and all they give us.
Suck_on_my_Presence@lemmy.worldto Today I Learned@lemmy.world•TIL how to discover emotionsEnglish3·25 days agoThe therapist I’m seeing now is big on this kind of thing. Not so much as the OP where we’re trying to feel emotions in the body, but more that we’re trying to feel the reactions and bigger emotions in the context of time. As in “How old is this part of you that feels this?”
It’s very helpful, in my opinion, because it’s allowing me to heal parts of myself that suffered the trauma, and it’s allowing the PTSD to feel less like a jump scare and more like an understanding.
Suck_on_my_Presence@lemmy.worldto Dull Men's Club@lemmy.world•I bought some better quality socks4·25 days agoDefinitely pricey, but definitely worth it. The guarantee itself is worth it.
Suck_on_my_Presence@lemmy.worldto Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•What is the most obscure fact you know?7·29 days agoHonestly I wish I knew. The disease is relatively unknown, so I doubt there’s been studies like that.
Suck_on_my_Presence@lemmy.worldto Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•What is the most obscure fact you know?27·30 days agoLiving at high altitude for long periods of time can cause a disease that is otherwise most associated with cocaine and meth.
Pulmonary Arterial Hypertension has some weird causes, but it seems that high altitude and having to work for enough oxygen can cause the body to revolt.
Woah, that’s so cool! Does it smell good? What agriculture zone are you in?
Suck_on_my_Presence@lemmy.worldto Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•Are there any songs or albums for which you prefer the live version?5·1 month agoThere’s an album for Simon and Garfunkel live at Madison square garden. I think I only really love it more than most of their other stuff because it’s the album I grew up on and it’s got all the classics. Unfortunately I couldn’t find it on Spotify, but it’s probably out there.
It’s not an album necessarily, but there is a Portugal The Man live sort of half documentary half album that’s done acoustically. It’s awesome, I think it really highlights how eclectic they are as a group.
Similarly, not an album, but there’s a few accoustic songs done by Manchester Orchestra in one sitting that’s on YouTube and it’s just absolutely gorgeous. It’s my favorite songs of theirs and it’s just beautiful.
Suck_on_my_Presence@lemmy.worldto Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•Are there any songs or albums for which you prefer the live version?10·1 month agoA lot of the Unplugged concerts are so much better, IMO
Suck_on_my_Presence@lemmy.worldto pics@lemmy.world•Buttermilk Falls/Lake Treman Loop via Gorge, Bear and Rim Trail, Buttermilk Falls State Park, Ithaca, NY [OC]3·1 month agoThis is beautiful! Was it busy?
Shale. It doesn’t taste like much, but the consistency is like a really good chocolate bar, so it kinda messes with the mind. Thanks I don’t have pica, but that would definitely be my rock of choice
West coast best coast
I was curious too so I looked it up.
Pens. Lighters. And razors for shaving. Mostly the single use ones.
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