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minus-squarehazel@lemmy.blahaj.zonelinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up26·22 days agoWhen everyone supports you and validates you no matter what, you’ll never be certain whether you deserve that support and validation. In this case, it basically means our transfem thinks those gendering her correctly are just pandering.
minus-squarebirdwing@lemmy.blahaj.zonelinkfedilinkarrow-up17·22 days agoSelf-gaslighting - into selfdepreciation, perhaps?
minus-squarehazel@lemmy.blahaj.zonelinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up16·22 days agoPrecisely. Getting the treatment you want seems so impossible that the mind rejects it.
When everyone supports you and validates you no matter what, you’ll never be certain whether you deserve that support and validation. In this case, it basically means our transfem thinks those gendering her correctly are just pandering.
Self-gaslighting - into selfdepreciation, perhaps?
Precisely. Getting the treatment you want seems so impossible that the mind rejects it.