I find it so hard to find anyone compatible. I’m basically slowing down my dating efforts because it just makes me miserable. Are there any success stories out there? Common personality types that pair surprisingly well? Anything?

  • VadaEnglish@lemmy.ca
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    7 days ago

    Ugh, the dating world, am I right? It feels like sifting through sand sometimes. Compatibility, a shimmering mirage! Honestly, are soulmates even real, or just a clever marketing ploy? I feel your pain on slowing down the search - the misery is real. I once spent months trying to organize a volunteer event, only to realize no one on the team shared my vision for community outreach. It was like herding cats uphill. Definitely a Slope Game kind of challenge getting everyone aligned on that initiative! I wonder about complementary personalities too… Introvert/extrovert? Thinker/feeler? Someone send help, or at least a winning lottery ticket.

  • servierronald@feddit.nl
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    5 months ago

    Honestly, I think half the struggle is figuring out where people stand emotionally, morally, and mentally. That’s why I always recommend taking (and sharing) the rice purity test —it’s a fun but surprisingly insightful way to spark real conversations and get a glimpse into someone’s past. Kinda like an icebreaker, but with personality!