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  • A lack of self-harm should be celebrated, not used as a bargaining chip or as a reminder that things could go worse if not for their self-control. Saying that in this context is an emotionally manipulative way to imply “If I do self-harm after our next argument, it’ll be your fault because you drove me to do it”.

    All that pales in comparison to her throwing chairs. That’s not an acceptable way to demonstrate you’re angry or unhappy. This person seems to have some issues with emotional regulation, and you’re on the receiving end of that. It sounds like this person would benefit from therapy and maybe even anger management classes.

    If you’re dead set on continuing this relationship, you’ll probably want to get into couples therapy with a licensed marriage & family therapist so you can both work through your respective issues. If not couples, then go to one yourself so you can talk out your feelings with someone and get an outsiders perspective. You owe it to yourself to find someone who will be a partner in your life and who will treat you with love and respect.




  • I found the easy money is to get the coords for a planet where a bunch of people have set up activated indium (AI) mining operations from the coord subreddit. Then I just travel there, set up a base for ease of access, and switch my network activity off. Every mine on the planet will be full of AI that you can freely take with no risk of stealing from the base owner since you’re offline. Grab as much as you can fit in your inventories, then start flying around to find a good place to sell the lot.

    The last step tends to be the tricky one. AI is a commodity that responds to surges in availability, so anyone who sold near you or near the mining planet will drive the sale price down for a while. If you find a system that you can sell the AI at market value, then you can make hundreds of millions in one fell swoop.


  • You do you. Personally I found this to be a waste of time and energy. Not to mention that doing this also adds to cybertruck owners’ sense of persecution when they’re out and about, which further polarizes them away from rational discourse.

    Anyone who owns one of those cars and drives it around at this point is likely driving it BECAUSE of the reaction they get from everyone around them. It’s far more cruel to deny them what they want. Ignore them. If you can’t, then laugh at them instead. After all it is funny that thousands of idiots spent 100k+ on this generation’s iteration of the Ford Pinto, except that it looks like shit.












  • tetrachromacy@lemmy.worldtotumblr@lemmy.worldLive your truth
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    3 months ago

    If you’ve met a nerdy type and you think they aren’t kinky in some way, it’s because they’ve mastered masking in front of the normies. It’s an essential life skill. I don’t know a single kinky person who isn’t a nerd or a geek, and vice versa. Full credit to this guy for living life out loud. Wish being kinky wasn’t an opportunity for public shaming, but it is how it is.



  • tetrachromacy@lemmy.worldtoMusic@lemmy.worldThe 'stomp clap hey' hate is back
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    3 months ago

    This article is dogshit. All the author is doing is quoting random people on Xitter that say they hate this music genre. This could have been written by AI. They also missed the chance to use the phrase “Stomp Clap Hate”.

    Is this what passes for journalism these days? Cause it’s lazy as fuck and if someone could do this - and anyone can - it’s time to switch careers.