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Cake day: June 14th, 2023

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  • I’m not sure what your regular OS is but on Linux you can also use Qemu/Kvm to run virtual machines, or docker/podman for containers. You can also look into Virtual Box for a more finished interface. If you want to have something that behaves like the cloud you could also try Incus.

    On windows : HyperV or Virtual Box for vms, you can also use Docker Desktop or Podman desktop. I think wsl also let you run services.


  • I did not really want a kid but got one, the second one was wanted, the third one a surprise.

    I am lucky to be in a good place in life and with a partner that is a great mother and we are a good team all around in regards to raising a family. Our kids get a lot of love from both of us and I like to think we provide them with an environment in which they can thrive.

    But let’s be frank, raising kids is rewarding but still can be hard even when your situation is good. It takes a massive amount of time, energy and money. Having childs is often portrayed as a somewhat easy heavenly thing, which is not true.

    I can only imagine the amount of work a disabled kid requires and to be honest I don’t know if I could make it. You have my respect for that.


  • I have kids, 3 of them, did not want any. It gets better! It’s normal to not fall instantly in love with them, even for the mother. It’s a new person in your life and require that you adapt and change a lot of things.

    It’s not clear from your post what is exactly going on with your wife but postpartum syndrome is a reel thing and may be affecting her.

    If you need help reach out to family and friends if that’s possible. Depending on where you are in the world you may be able to find local support for new families, or even dad support groups.



  • Here are my readings for my outdoor Airgradient Open air and indoor Airgradient One.

    Doors and windows are closed since yesterday afternoon and my HVAC uses MERV 13 carbon filters. I have set the fan to run a bit faster in order to filter out more PM. You can also turn off the air exchanger a bit but you need to keep a eye on CO2.